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How to Perform Self
Hypnosis
- Go to a comfortable,
private place and sit in any comfortable chair or couch.
Although some people prefer to lie down, you are more
susceptible to sleep than when sitting up. Whether you sit
or lie, ensure you do not cross your legs or any part of
your body. You may be in this position for a while and this
could end up being uncomfortable.
- Make sure you are not
going to be disturbed for at least half an
hour.
- Close your eyes and work
to rid your mind of any feelings of fear, stress, or
anxiety. When you begin, you might find it difficult not to
think. You may find that thoughts keep intruding. When this
happens, don't try to force the thoughts out. Observe them
impartially, and then let them slip away.
- Recognize the tension in
your body. Beginning with your toes, imagine the tension
slowly falling away from your body and vanishing. Imagine
it freeing each body part one at a time starting with your
toes and working its way up your body. Visualize each part
of your body becoming lighter and lighter as the tension is
removed. relax your toes, then your feet. Continue with
your calves, thighs, hips, stomach and so on, until you've
relaxed each portion, including your face and head. Using
imagery techniques of something you find comforting or
soothing, such as water (feel the water rushing over your
feet and ankles, cleansing them of tension) can be
effective as well.
- Take slow, deep breaths.
When you exhale, see the tension and negativity leaving in
a dark cloud. As you inhale, see the air returning as a
bright force filled with life and energy.
- Appreciate the fact that
you are now extremely relaxed. Imagine you are at the top
of a flight of 10 stairs which at the fifth step start to
submerge into water. Picture every detail of this scene
from the top to the bottom. Tell yourself that you are
going to descend the stairs, counting each step down,
starting at 10. Picture each number in your mind. Imagine
that each number you count is further down and one step
closer to the bottom. After each number, you will feel
yourself drifting further and further into deep relaxation.
As you take each step, imagine the feel of the step under
your feet. Once you are at the fifth step imagine and truly
feel the refreshing coolness of the water and tell yourself
that you are stepping into an oasis of purity and
cleanliness. As you begin to descend the last five steps,
start to feel the water getting higher and higher up your
body. You should now start to feel somewhat numb and your
heart will start to race a bit, but notice it and let any
qualms about the situation just drift away into the
water.
- At this point at the
bottom of the water you shouldn't really feel anything just
a floating sensation you may even feel like you're
spinning. Once you have achieved this state you should
proceed to address your problems and decide upon what it is
you want from where you are. [Note: if you do not feel as
stated above, try again, slower with a will to grasp what
is happening]. Now start to narrate what your doing speak
in the present and future tense quietly to yourself, or as
if you are reading it from a page. Start to picture three
boxes under the water that you have to swim to get to. Once
you have found the boxes open them slowly one at a time and
narrate to yourself what is happening when you open the
box. For example 'As i open the box i feel a radiant light
engulf me, i feel it becoming a part of me, this light is
my new found confidence that i can not ever lose as it is
now apart of me' and then proceed on to the next box. You
should avoid using statements with negative connotation
such as "I don't want to be tired and irritable." Instead,
say, "I am becoming calm and relaxed." Examples of positive
statements "I am strong and slender," "I am successful and
positive," and, if you have pain, "My back is beginning to
feel wonderful." (see warning on PAIN)
- Repeat your statement(s)
to yourself as many times as you wish. 2 or 3 times should
be enough
- Once you are satisfied
with what you have done and embraced swim back to the
stairs and feel with each step you take the water becoming
lower and lower until you have once again reached that
fifth step. Once you are out of the water and are on the
sixth step you may start to feel heavy or as if there is a
weight on your chest. Merely wait on the step until this
passes, constantly repeating your aforementioned
statements. Once it passes continue up the stairs
visualizing each step by its number, feeling the steps
under neath you, will yourself to carry on up the
stairs.
- Once you have ascended,
give yourself a few moments before opening your eyes (you
may want to visualise yourself opening a door to the
outside world, do this slowly and imagine the light that
poors in through the door way, this should make your eyes
open)(also it sometimes help telling yourself that when you
open your eyes you will be smiling, if you are indeed
smiling when you open your eyes you will have some sort of
proof that it has worked) and take your time getting up.
Then outloud tell yourself "Wide awake, Wide awake" or
something maybe that your mother used to say when she woke
you up in the morning as a child. This will put your mind
back in the conscious state. You will be totally relaxed
and a feel refreshed.
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